It’s supposed to be hard (+ a calisthenics workout)

Happy Monday, Last Thursday, I had what I can only call a bad day. Everything that day felt hard. My writing, my training, my personal life — in all of it, I felt lost, frustrated, and unsure of what to do next. After struggling through one thing after another, I began to wonder if I was …

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Rest is part of the work (+ a 5-exercise calisthenics workout)

Happy Monday, I have a mixed relationship with the holidays. I love what I do, and I don’t look forward to taking time off. I feel the most alive when I’m writing, training, or working toward goals I care about. I pretty much live by this quote by Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi, one of my favorite psychologists …

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Learning to Be Flexible With Your Goals (+ a Cat-Friendly Workout)

Happy Monday, If we’ve learned anything from the last few years, it’s that things don’t always go according to plan. And, unsurprisingly, this same lesson applies to our fitness journeys. Plans and goals are incredibly useful tools — they help us focus our attention and give us priorities to organize our lives around. Making a …

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Reframing Plateaus (+ a Tiny Hotel Room Workout)

Happy Monday, Logically, most of us know that any time we’re trying to get better at something, whether it’s fitness-related, learning a new language, or picking up a new musical instrument, our progress won’t be linear. Non-linear progress means we should expect brief spurts of improvement followed by long periods where we seem to be …

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Everybody is An Athlete (+ a Bodyweight Stair Workout)

Happy Monday, “If you have a body, you are an athlete.” — Bill Bowerman I remember seeing this quote from the co-founder of Nike early on in my athletic journey and feeling it spark something in me. Could I really be an athlete? Up until that point, I’d never even considered it an option. I grew up …

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Why we need plateaus and a do-anywhere calisthenics workout

Happy Monday,

There’s no getting around it: plateaus suck.

I know, because I’ve been in one for the past couple of months in my jiu-jitsu training — and I can’t wait to get out of it. I’ll be honest, there have been plenty of moments during that time where the voice in my head tells me that I’ll never get better, — and I might as well just give up (I refuse to listen to it!).

When he was alive, George Leonard, one of my favorite authors (he authored Mastery among many other books about human potential), wrote a lot about plateaus, noting that for most people, “plateaus are a form of purgatory.”

But here’s the thing: we need plateaus.

While they’re undoubtedly frustrating, plateaus have a purpose.: They give us a chance to practice what we’ve learned. It takes time and repetition to learn something new and cement it into our long-term memory. The bigger the challenge, the more time we’ll likely need to internalize our new knowledge.

So next time you hit a plateau, don’t freak out — recognize that it’s just part of the process.

(Still, plateaus shouldn’t last forever. If you’ve been stuck in one for a while, here are some ways to get out of it.)

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Why it’s so important to track your workout progress and a medicine ball HIIT workout

Happy Monday,

Do you keep track of your workout progress? If not, you should. Here are a few key reasons why:

  • Tracking helps you pay more attention to that area of your life (this is called the Scoreboard Principle in psychology)
  • It helps you make our goals a priority — and allocate time and resources toward them
  • Seeing proof of your progress also helps keep you motivated on the long road to mastery

I’ve kept a training journal since I started my fitness journey over ten years ago. Doing so has helped me see that I have made progress even when it feels like I’m going nowhere.

And celebrating that progress — no matter how small — is also key. If you focus only on your long-term goal, you might get overwhelmed by the long road ahead and give up before you get very far.

Small wins act as a checklist of progress points on the way to our larger goals. They remind our brains that no matter how futile our efforts may seem at times, we are making progress.

Keep track of those wins. And keep going.

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How fitness changed my life and a full-body equipment-free workout

Happy Monday,

I “found” fitness when I was twenty-two years old.

At the time, I was struggling — a lot. I was lost, hopeless, and disillusioned with life. At that point, I had tried and failed at so many life paths that didn’t fit, I felt like I had failed as a human being.

I started with a single push-up. That push-up changed everything for me.

Before fitness, I believed that everything about myself was fixed, from my physical abilities to my personality. Fitness showed me that I could have a say in the person I was becoming and some control over the direction my life was taking.

Remaking myself from a person who had no obvious athletic abilities into someone who identifies as an athlete made me wonder what else I could do to shape myself — and my journey.

Fitness helped me learn to believe in myself. It taught me how to set and achieve impossible-seeming goals. More than anything, it taught me to take risks, to give something my all — and to try.

Has fitness changed your life in a profound or meaningful way? I’d love to hear your story! You can reply directly to this email to get in touch.

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Learn to expect bad days and an equipment-free calisthenics circuit

Happy Monday,

You know those days when you end your workout feeling like you crushed it? Maybe you got a new PR, a skill you’ve been working on finally clicked, or you felt super strong or in great conditioning shape.

Well, those days are awesome — but they’re not going to happen every time. Progress isn’t linear, and not every workout will be great.

More realistically, you can expect about 30% of your training days to feel great, 30% to feel mediocre, and 30% to feel pretty bad.

Those numbers will vary based on the challenge level of your workout — the more you push yourself, the more you can expect some bad days.

The key is not to let them get to you. Bad days don’t mean you’re going backward — they’re just part of the process. Accept them, don’t dwell on them, and move on.

Since progress compounds, what matters most is that you keep showing up.

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