There’s Finally a Shift in the Conversation Around Exercise

Mental Health and Exercise

It’s 9:03 am, Monday, January 3rd. I arrive at the iconic Gold’s Gym in Venice, California, where I’ve worked out nearly every day for the last five years. This is part of my usual routine; get up by six, walk my dog to a coffee shop where I write for an hour and a half, scarf some oatmeal, then work out. These days, my workouts are my treat, my break from the otherwise hectic nature of my day. It didn’t use to be this way. More on that later.

I walk through the various rooms and see that all the regulars are there. We smile at each other through our masks as I walk by. I give a few of them hugs, and we wish each other a good workout.

As usual for this time of year, there are a lot of new faces I’ve never seen before in the gym. I scan the various rooms, wondering who I will see again and who will only make it in a few times before life gets in the way, and they decide that 2022 is not their year to prioritize their fitness after all.

Yet this year, something feels different. Yes, there are still the usual types slogging away on the treadmill, watching the minutes tick away as they hope to burn off the remnants of as many holiday cookies as possible in one go. But aside from the typical weight loss and muscle building goals, many of the newbies I’ve talked to have resolved to exercise not just for physical health or appearance reasons, but because they feel better mentally and emotionally when they exercise.

In the past, this awareness that exercise leads to a better mood and improved headspace is something I’d only hear from people who had long embraced the identity of an athlete. Runners, for example, have long proclaimed that their runs are their primary source of sanity. In What I Talk About When I Talk About Running, celebrated Japanese writer Haruki Murakami writes that he runs to acquire a void. That void is peace; it’s flow; it’s a break from the otherwise endless chatter of the monkey mind. And it’s something that most runners and athletes come to crave.

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Why push-ups mean so much to me, being a late bloomer, and a stair + pull-up bar routine

Hey there,

Push-ups may not mean much to most people. They’re a basic bodyweight exercise, after all; one that doesn’t require much skill or fancy equipment. But to me, push-ups have been everything.

I did my first push-up when I was twenty-one. At the time, I was weak both physically and mentally. I hated  my body and who I was as a person.

Push-ups were the first ‘real’ exercise I ever did. They were my first taste of strength training and the entire reason I started believing in my physical and mental capabilities. They gave me a path forward; a glimpse of the person I could become if I was willing to put in the work.

To this day, I’m grateful I can do push-ups. Personal transformation through exercise is legit.

Have you experienced personal transformation through fitness or exercise? I’d love to hear your story. Please reply directly to this email and I’ll be in touch!

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Lessons from a chronically anxious human and a full-body tire workout

Hey there,

Anxiety is something I’ve dealt with since childhood. The earliest time I can trace it back to is third grade when my family and I moved across town, and I was forced to attend a new school. Since then, it’s been an ongoing battle to appear “normal” in a world full of, what feels like up until recently, much less anxious people.

Over the years, my anxiety has shown up in many ways: through disordered eating and body image issues, in social situations, exercise addiction, extreme claustrophobia, panic and anxiety attacks, and even self-harm. It’s been an underlying part of who I am, ruling my every thought and action, making me wonder what life would be like without it.

Although experiencing occasional anxiety is normal in stressful situations like moving, switching jobs, public speaking, or — yes — during a seemingly never-ending pandemic, anxiety becomes an indicator of an underlying disorder when feelings become excessive, all-consuming, and interfere with daily living.

As someone who has been dealing with near chronic anxiety for decades, I’ve had a lot of practice to figure out what helps and what doesn’t. I’ve outlined the strategies that have helped me most (many of them science-backed) in this article for Medium, which is more personal than I normally write.

It’s important to remember that there is no one-size-fits-all anti-anxiety plan. Some of these strategies, like music festivals, may not work for you at all. Others may help you let go of some of your anxieties and feel like they no longer control you the same as they did before. Try and maintain an open mind and be patient with yourself as you try different methods and find what works best for you.

You can read the full article on Medium here.

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Want to Build True Strength? Ditch the Weights

“But don’t I need weights to get strong?” In my work as a fitness and performance coach, I get this question a lot. Even though I’ve been designing mostly bodyweight-based workouts for myself and my clients for over a decade, most people can’t seem to believe me at first when I tell them that you don’t need heavy weights …

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What fitness can teach us about life, the importance of rest, and a handstand conditioning workout

Hey there,

As many of you probably know, I didn’t grow up as an athlete. I was a shy, clumsy kid who preferred books to sports. I didn’t do my first push-up until I was twenty-one, and it wasn’t until much later that “athlete” became a core part of my identity.

Like most adults, I first started exercising mainly to lose weight. Once I caught the fitness bug, my reasons expanded beyond appearance to include building strength, learning new athletic skills, and physically becoming the best athlete I could be.

But the benefits I’ve gotten from fitness and sport have been so much more than just physical.

Read my latest Medium article for five ways engaging in physical activity as an adult can help you become better in all areas of your life — whether your sport of choice is running, surfing, tennis, martial arts, weightlifting, dance, yoga, or any movement-related activity.

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On why movement is more important than ever right now and a stair workout

Hey there,

Everyone I know is anxious right now.

We went from thinking the Covid pandemic was finally subsiding to once again avoiding crowds and scrambling to purchase better masks.

During times of uncertainty like these, it’s more important than ever to double down on a foundational habit: exercise.

Think about it: do you feel better when you sit on the couch and mindlessly binge watch Netflix for hours, or when you get up and do something active like work out or go for a walk? My guess is nine times out of ten, you’ll feel better after you exercise.

Click here to read my article on Medium about how exercise can help you feel better mentally and emotionally.

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Try This Athlete-Approved Method for Overcoming Life’s Obstacles

Athlete-approved Method for Overcoming Life's Obstacles

How often have you started working toward a new goal, full of determination and drive, only to give up when you encounter an obstacle or challenging circumstance?

This happened to me over and over when I was first starting my personal fitness journey. I’d commit to working out three times a week and vow to swap out junk food for healthier options. As long as everything went exactly as expected, I’d be fairly successful sticking to my plan.

But, of course, life never goes as planned. Inevitably, something would happen to throw me off course. Sooner or later, I’d give up on my goal altogether, lose my progress, then have to start all over again at a later date.

The more I went through this demoralizing cycle, the more I became convinced that I could never become fit or healthy. But it’s not that I was doing anything wrong or that I wasn’t capable of change in the first place: I just didn’t have any alternative arrangements to fall back on when I encountered challenging circumstances.

Whenever we are striving for a goal, whether fitness or health-related or otherwise, we will inevitably encounter obstacles.

Rather than being surprised by the hurdles life throws at us, we can learn to plan for them.

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